Thursday, December 10, 2015
Hands-on Christmas
Friday, December 4, 2015
Reflections
This Christmas season is quickly approaching, and what better time to think back and reflect on some Christmas memories.
It has been the best of times…
We got married during Christmas break, while we were attending college. It was a bit of a whirlwind affair (sorry mom). Miraculously, things came together for a lovely event (well, thanks to a ton of work and stress by my parents). We are looking forward to our 43rd anniversary this year!
Our last child (Number 6) was born a few days before Christmas. Rocking a brand new tiny baby by the twinkling lights of a Christmas tree was a poignant reminder of the birth of our Savior. (Feeling a lot of gratitude for an efficient hospital staff and modern conveniences, compared to the humble setting of a crowded, animal stable!)
There are so many happy memories of sharing the excitement of Christmas mornings with our children and families. During the really lean years a lot of work went in to creating a “respectable” Santa delivery. (Why do we let ourselves feel that pressure?) Some years, finishing sewing and other projects went right down to the wire, even well into the Christmas Eve. I think the rewards for making gifts is much more satisfying, don’t you? (Although I’m relieved I don’t have to do all that work anymore.)
It was the worst of times…
There are a few memories that come with a bittersweet reminder.
My sweet parents passed away just before and just after Christmas, one month apart, following their three month sudden illnesses. They both had unrelated cancers diagnosed at the same time. That year we put on happy faces for our young children, but our hearts were hurting deeply. Thoughtful family, friends, and neighbors helped so much by supplying little treats and surprises. We’d come home from long, depressing days at the hospital to find goodies, meals, and surprises on our front porch. This gave our children excitement and joy, which we didn’t have the energy to provide.
Thank you to our secret angels!
If you would like to read a story I wrote about that Christmas you can click here.
So there you have it.
Christmas is a wonderful time of year, despite those tough experiences we sometimes go through.
It is a time for giving and receiving love and service.
Both are equally important.
May this Christmas season find you and your loved ones enjoying the sweetness and excitement that our perfect Savior, Jesus Christ provided for us.
Merry Christmas!
JoAnn

