
This weekend my sisters, some of our families, and I got together to clean out our Aunt Mardene’s house. (She passed away early in the summer.)
We all miss Mardene, but we believe she is in a better place and we are comforted that she’s not living alone anymore.
Still, it was a bit more emotional than I expected it to be.
It could have been all the memories that came flooding back as we sorted through old things and moved out furniture.
Perhaps it was knowing the old house I grew up in would no longer be mine to drop in and hang out anymore. (My great niece and her husband are going to move in so that will help.)
Maybe it was the hot weather.
Or the rain.
Who knows?
It was hard work, though.
(Darn, no pictures of me with my rain-ruined hair, and my bright red, sweaty hot face!)
Mardene was very humble, and she was not a person who loved material things, but she was quite sentimental.
She had saved a lot of letters, cards, funeral programs, and newspaper clippings of family achievement, all neatly bundled together.
She even wrote down the names of people who called and visited on her birthdays, probably so she could relive each call over and over in her mind.
I found this big stack of letters that I had written to her over the years. She must have kept every single one.
Maybe I’m feeling the “double whammy” effect from losing both Mardene and my father-in-law this summer, of knowing that those doors are now closed and I can’t visit or hang out with them, but it made me think really hard about the little things we do to support each other.
Letters, cards, pictures, phone calls, and visits were her treasures.
In our technological world are we denying our older family members and friends of precious gifts?
We text, email, and send off messages on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter to stay in touch, which is speedy and wonderful, but how do you save those memories?
Something to think about.
I wish I could say that I’m going to start up my old weekly, family newsletters again, (I fizzled out the last few years), but I do want to leave behind good memories.
What things do you do to stay in touch with your family?
JoAnn
P.S. The girls enjoyed a visit with grandpa shortly before he passed away.

Thanks for the pictures, Liz.

Glad part of the family made it to a lake!