Fairy Tales do Come True…

 

Once upon a time…

On a golden June morning, a beautiful princess and a dashing young prince joined their hands together in holy matrimony.

Excitement was in the air….

A glorious location was chosen….

 

A sacred ordinance was performed…

Friends and family came to celebrate with them…

Only a few slept through the event….

A fun reception followed….

Red roses graced the tables…

 

Festive refreshments were enjoyed…

A little magic was felt by all….

As in all fairy tales, the evening ended much too quickly.

(Some damsels might have felt their slippers were getting a little too tight at this point, so maybe the timing was just perfect.)

Good wishes were called out as the happy couple departed.

And they lived happily ever after!

 

The End

(Or is it just the beginning?)

P.S.  We’re sure glad our photographer didn’t deliver a little prince during this event.  We love your photographs, Liz!

P.P.S.  Thanks for so many friends and family who worked hard to make this fairy tale a reality!

Showers with men…and kids, too!

I’ve mentioned before that my family is unconventional. 

Part of the reason is that our families are growing and getting together is not an easy task.  Every year it seems to get harder and harder to accommodate all the different schedules.

Did I also mention that a four hour drive is required to get from my sister’s house on the North to the sister’s home at the South end (me)?

Because of this fact, and since we still enjoy sharing holidays and special events, we combine many activities into one big event.  Since everyone brings their whole family, and no one wants to be left out, we just let everyone be included in the fun.

After our first combined event, I innocently remarked that, “I like having showers with men!” and the phrase stuck.

And that is how “showers with men” became a reality in our family..

We have learned that if everyone brings a salad and a dessert we have enough food to feed everyone who shows up, and a lot of variety., plus no one has to do all the work.  We also have enough left over for later.  Sometimes we have someone fix a meat dish, too.

Playing shower games is replaced by lawn games, visiting, or chasing kids.  The men have learned to patiently “ooh and aah” as gifts are opened, and the honorees share the spotlight.  (Yes, it would be more fun to be the only one honored, but it isn’t very realistic any more.)

We recently had a fun-filled “shower-shower-birthday-birthday-Memorial-Day party”.

These three are getting married soon. 

My niece Amy is on the left, and Brittany and Robbie (our son and his fiancé) are on the right.

Here is a rare shot of some of the kids actually staying in one place.

It was an untraditional, but fun day!

Happy Birthday Diane and Chris!

Thanks Linda and Dave for sharing your beautiful yard.

(Sorry I didn’t get pictures of everyone who was there.  We missed those of you who couldn’t make it, too!)

JoAnn

P.S.  Does your family have any uncommon traditions that your have created?

A beautiful season…

School is on the final countdown and I can’t wait for some extra free time.

That is probably my most wished for, but unachieved, dream.

While my life has been busy, it has also been fulfilling and fun.

We had a “speed-date” vacation to Portland to visit our daughter Heidi and her husband Ovidiu. 

(It involved two days of travel and only two days of visiting!)

Our other three daughters also went, but they were a little smarter and flew.  Little Aubrey also came with us to celebrate.

Portland was having a beautiful spring.

I fell totally in love with all the rhododendrons and other flowering tree/bushes!  We don’t have the right climate for them in Utah and I guess I’ve never been anywhere during their blooming season, but I was blown away by their beauty. 

I may need to reconsider living in a cold winter/dry summer location.

It was great having a sister reunion.

And fun seeing our two expectant mommas together.

 

Little Aubrey was such a great traveler.

We got to meet some very nice people as we attended a baby shower for Heidi.

 

I finally got my quilt finished!

You can read about my disastrous quilting project here.

 

We spent some time in downtown Portland, browsing the street markets ...

waiting in line for Voodoo Doughnuts…(one and a half hours!)

and wandering through the rose gardens (we were a little too early for the Rose Festival).

It was a quick trip, but we had fun!

We hated saying good-bye so quickly, but the trip home was also beautiful.

Don’t you just love this time of year?

There is so much beauty in nature-and it is quite different everywhere you go!

Have a great week!

JoAnn

Lessons learned…..from moms

I am one of the lucky ones.

This beautiful lady is my mother, Mildred.

And this classy lady is my mother-in-law, Naomi.

And everyone should have an Aunt Mardene in their life.

Today, as we honor our mothers, I thought I’d share a few bits of wisdom I learned from these amazing women.

Here goes:

1.  Love and sacrifice are innate qualities to them. 

No matter what.

Everyone else comes first.  It didn’t matter if they were tired, sick, busy, or wanting some personal time, if we needed them- they were always there.  In fact, if anyone needed them they were of service.  You didn’t even have to ask.  They seemed to always know.

2.  The best way to a person’s  heart is through their stomach. 

I have wonderful memories of delicious meals prepared by their hands.  Some are recipes that none of us can even replicate.  A visit always included a tasty meal or treat.  So many heavenly aromas came from their kitchens.

3.  A little humor goes a long way (and takes the stress of life).

My mother and her good friend, Carol, once made dresses out of the old stage curtains from our church.  (Think Carol
Burnett and her skit from Gone With The Wind.)  My mother-in-law loved to eat dessert first.  They always helped us see the humor in life’s little disasters, to laugh at the spills and mishaps.  They would always remind us that one day we would laugh at the situation and in the meantime, we would survive.

4.  Kindness is the only option. 

Whenever someone would offend us, we were always reminded to think about what it was like being in that person’s shoes.  They always practiced patience.  We were encouraged to never exclude people, or leave anyone out of the fun.  They always looked for the good in people.  Many times we heard the words, “If you can’t say anything kind, don’t say anything at all!”

5.  Aim for perfection.

We were guided by their examples and encouraged to try a little harder.  Quitting was never an option.  They were (Mardene is still alive, so I should add “are”) women of honor and courage, those we all look up to as earthly angels. 

We love and honor them and many other women today!

Happy Mothers’ Day!

JoAnn

P.S.  I am blessed to be the mother/mother-in-law of some pretty amazing children, too!

 

Milestones…and a senior discount

Life has little check-points that we all use to mark the passage of time.

It seems like just yesterday that we became grandparents for the first time.   We were ready. 

Now it seems like the grandkids are growing up so quickly.

We just lost our first tooth.  Well, Maddie did.

Don’t you love her letter to the Tooth Fairy?   She wrote it herself.

Another big milestone is having our youngest granddaughter, Olivia, turn one.

How did this year fly by so swiftly?

We will soon welcome two new little boys and a lovely daughter-in-law. 

Can I say we are excited?

Life doesn’t always give us what we want-when we want it- but that doesn’t mean it can’t be wonderful and good.

Sometimes it just requires patience.

We all reach milestones in our lives- some In a different way, or at a different time.

A new milestone for me is qualifying for senior discounts.

(I’m not sure I’m ready for that!)

What milestones are you facing right now?

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Have a great week!

JoAnn